The thing about big, scary feelings? They don’t always tell the truth.
They say stuff like, ‘hey sensitive Sally! Guess what? You’re literally the only one who finds life this hard!’
Now, even when you know that can’t be true, go for long enough out there in the 9 to 5, don’t-mention-crying-on-your-lunch-break wilderness, and it can leave you wondering.
What if my feelings are just too big?
What if I don’t really belong on earth?
We’ve been deep in that pit of unbelonging ourselves - many times my friend.
What changed our lives was surprisingly simple, but amazingly hard to find! It was hearing from other people who find life just as hard as we do. Fellow lunch-break-cryers and late-night-questioners. Other people with big feelings.
To feel you belong, you need somewhere to belong to.
Here’s our take on this stuff. For whatever reason, some of us find it hard to feel like we belong on earth. That’s not because there’s anything wrong with us, it’s just that there aren’t enough spaces yet, for sensitive types to share the messy stuff.
Somewhere your big, scary feelings make sense.
That’s why we made this thing. The thing we always wished already existed. We’re extremely proud to say we’ve helped thousands of people feel less alone in their big, beautiful brains. They’re in our inbox telling us what this thing means to them.
But we can’t keep this feelings boat afloat on our own.
There are two ways you can support this work we do.
#1. A one-off donation
Your contribution will directly support the day-to-day running of The Big Feels Club, and make sure we can keep on putting out writing, podcasts, and discussion spaces - for thousands of Big Feels Clubbers all over the world.
And it will help us grow, so we can reach more people wondering if there’s a place for them.
#2. Become a card-carrying member
Card-carrying members really help this little feelings boat stay afloat, through regular monthly contributions.
And you get your very own Big Feels Club membership card!!!👇👀
Click here to read all about the card-carrying membership, including what you’ll get and how it keeps this club going.